Why not find acquaintances for decoration? These three reasons make many people overwhelmed

Many people feel that when looking for the help of acquaintances, the other party will look at the friendship with themselves or their families, and the price will be cheaper. It will not deliberately raise the price like the decoration companies on the market.

At the same time, they subconsciously think that the other party will think of ways to save money for themselves; Acquaintances will not adulterate when purchasing decoration materials; They will do their best to help themselves decorate, and will not cut corners.

But according to the personal experience of the people around me, I found that things are not as beautiful as I thought at the beginning.

① I was looking for acquaintances to save money, but I didn't expect to be severely "slaughtered"

Qiaojie's mother-in-law is a "frugal" woman. In order to save money, she found her distant relatives to help Qiaojie decorate her new house. Because they are relatives, sister Qiao and her husband didn't mean well to let each other clarify the total price and the details of the decoration at the beginning, nor did they, like other decoration families, from time to time or directly entrust the elderly at home to supervise the quality and progress of the decoration.

There will be a series of subsequent events that continue to happen. For example, when the wardrobe is decorated and the price quoted by the other party is heard, sister Qiao and Mr. Qiao find that acquaintances do not necessarily save money. They only spend 60000 yuan to play a combination cabinet in the bedroom. According to the most expensive price in the market, 6000 yuan per square meter, the price demanded by relatives is also outrageous in small counties and cities.

Ask acquaintances for help. I thought the other party would save money for friendship, but they are all businessmen. Who will do business at a loss? In the subconscious of many people, they think it has something to do with it, and they want to let others try their best to save money for themselves. This is a wrong idea, so it is understandable to be "slaughtered" later.

② Acquaintances are even more difficult to reason. If they don't get along well, the relationship may break down

When I renovated last year, my neighbor's house was also renovated. The neighbor directly asked his parents to help the "caretaker" workers. What impressed me most was that the neighbor's father wanted the workers to do a good job in the waterproof structure and floor of the toilet. It's best to decorate according to the waterproof measures they had discussed.

However, the workers were too troublesome to pave directly and casually, which caused the neighbor's father to be very angry and directly asked the other party to break the floor of the bathroom and lay it again, otherwise they would not give money, which allowed the workers who cut corners to renovate.

Sister Qiao happened to encounter such a thing when she was decorating. The floor she made at that time was not directly done according to the requirements of sister Qiao and her husband. The distant relatives had to say that it was for the consideration of sister Qiao's family, which made sister Qiao very angry. If it hadn't been for the face of her mother-in-law, she would have fallen out.

Therefore, there are many limitations in dealing with acquaintances. There are too many things to think about, and many things can't be haggled over. However, decoration is a major event, and we can't ignore it. However, if we don't haggle over with acquaintances well, the relationship between us may break down.

③ The decoration style of being left and right is not happy to live

Find acquaintances to decorate. If the owner's family does not participate in the decoration, or the opinions are not adopted by the other party, it may be unforgivable for the owner of the decoration for a lifetime. Generally, people who find acquaintances to help decorate will not find acquaintances to help when buying a house. In addition to factors such as not saving money and not reducing prices, another very important factor is that the decoration style is randomly disturbed.

The owner's preference for decorating a new home is interfered. Some acquaintances like to interfere with others' decoration design with their own eyes, such as what kind of floor to use; What kind of wardrobe to fight; What style to do; The other party always says that I suggest you decorate like this for your own good, which makes it more difficult for young couples who don't know how to deal with their relationship.

Therefore, the original agreement on how to decorate was later controlled by the acquaintances of the decoration company. Although the new house looks very good, the satisfaction of the owner's house is very small, and there will even be complaints.

Source: Notes on saving money in masizi community